Anxiety

Published

Anxiety is the body’s natural response to stress, a psychological and physiological "alarm system" that is designed to help you navigate perceived threats. While it often feels like an unwelcome guest, it is actually rooted in the fight-or-flight response, where the brain signals the release of hormones like adrenaline to prepare you for action.

In everyday life, this can show up as a persistent feeling of apprehension, physical tension, or a "racing" heart. While occasional anxiety is a normal part of the human experience (like before a big presentation), it becomes a concern when the intensity of the worry is disproportionate to the actual situation or begins to interfere with daily functioning.

How to choose a therapist for anxiety

Choosing a therapist for anxiety is less about finding the “best” name on a list and more about finding someone you feel safe enough to be honest with. Many people worry they will not know what to say in a first email — that is normal, and a good therapist will help you find the words.

Look for practitioners who list anxiety, generalised anxiety, or related concerns in their profile. Approaches such as CBT, person-centred counselling, and integrative therapy are commonly used for anxiety, but the relationship often matters as much as the modality.

Fees, session format (in person or online), and availability should be clear before you commit. Many therapists offer a brief intro call — use it to notice whether you feel listened to, not interrogated.

  • Read the full profile, not just the photo — qualifications, fees, and how to contact them should be upfront.
  • Notice whether they mention experience with the kind of anxiety you recognise (worry, panic, health anxiety, social anxiety, and so on).
  • Trust your gut on the intro call: calm and clear beats impressive jargon.
  • It is fine to try more than one therapist before you settle — fit is part of the work.

New to therapy? Read our gentle introduction. Browse therapists who work with anxiety.